“Repent – Prepare for Confession”
©2012 James Dacey, Jr. OFS
My Friends,
Let us continue to examine our conscience. It is so important that we all do our best before God, showing Him with our whole heart that we really truly love Him. It is so important that we use our lives to serve Him and honor Him and do so with a pure heart, living a moral life. This exercise is one I use often. We all need to examine our hearts, our lives and our intentions often; to keep them in check. I hope this is helpful.
FOURTH-COMMANDMENT
"Honor your father and your mother." (Ex 20:12)
"Honor your father and your mother." (Ex 20:12)
- Did I disobey or
disrespect my parents or legitimate superiors?
- Did I neglect my duties
to my husband, wife, children or parents?
- Did I neglect to give
good religious example to my family?
- Did I fail to actively
take an interest in the religious education and formation of my children?
- Did I fail to educate
myself on the true teachings of the Church?
- Did I give scandal by
what I said or did, especially to the young?
- Did I cause anyone to
leave the faith?
- Did I cause or start
fights in my family?
- Did I care for my aged
family and friends?
- Did I give a full day's
work for a full day's pay?
- Did I give a fair wage to
my employees?
"You shall not kill." (Ex 20:13)
- Did I kill or physically
injure anyone?
- Did I have an abortion,
or advise someone else to have an abortion? (One who procures an abortion
is automatically excommunicated, as is anyone who is involved in an
abortion, Canon 1398. The excommunication will be lifted in the Sacrament
of Reconciliation.)
- Did I use or cause my
spouse to use birth control pills (whether or not realizing that birth
control pills do abort the fetus if and when conceived)?
- Did I attempt suicide?
- Did I take part in or
approve of "mercy killing" (euthanasia)?
- Did I get angry,
impatient, envious, unkind, proud, revengeful, jealous, hateful toward
another, lazy?
- Did I give bad example by
drug abuse, drinking alcohol to excess, fighting, quarreling?
- Did I abuse my children?
"You shall not commit adultery." (Ex 20:14) "You shall not covet your neighbor's wife." (Ex 20:17)
Note: In the area of deliberate sexual sins listed below, all are mortal sins
if there is sufficient reflection and full consent of the will. "No
fornicators, idolaters, or adulterers, no sodomites,... will inherit the
kingdom of God." (1 Cor 6:9-10) "Anyone who looks lustfully at a
woman has already committed adultery with her in his thoughts." (Mt 5:28)
- Did I willfully entertain
impure thoughts or desires?
- Did I use impure or
suggestive words? Tell impure stories? Listen to them?
- Did I deliberately look
at impure TV, videos, plays, pictures or movies? Or deliberately read
impure materials?
- Did I commit impure acts
by myself (masturbation)?
- Did I commit impure acts
with another - fornication (premarital sex), adultery (sex with a married
person)?
- Did I use artificial birth
control (by pills, device and withdrawal)?
- Did I marry or advise
anyone to marry outside the Church?
- Did I avoid the occasions
of impurity?
- Did I try to control my
thoughts sexually?
- Did I engage in
homosexual activity?
- Did I respect all members
of the opposite sex, or have I thought of other people as objects?
- Did I or my spouse have
sterilization done?
- Did I abuse my marriage
rights?
“Jesus, I Trust in You.”
Your Brother in Christ Jesus
and His Most Precious Mother Mary,
Jimmy (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS