He Who Hears You Hears Me

BEADS OF JOY 09-30-16

“He Who Hears You Hears Me”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel:

Luke 10:13-16 (He Who Hears You Hears Me)
“Woe to you, Chorazin! woe to you, Bethsaida! for if the mighty works done in you had been done in Tyre and Sidon, they would have repented long ago, sitting in sackcloth and ashes. But it shall be more tolerable in the judgment for Tyre and Sidon than for you. And you, Capernaum, will you be exalted to heaven? You shall be brought down to Hades. "He who hears you hears me, and he who rejects you rejects me, and he who rejects me rejects him who sent me."

Reflection:
Do you reject Jesus? Do you reject those who bring you our Lord? Forget about me; Do you hear the voice of your Priest and Deacon and the Nuns in your community? Our Lord speaks through those He sends. Yes, there are false prophets, but put those in doubt to the litmus test. Do they seek of personal praise? Do they seek of personal worship? Do they steal of your treasures? Do they live a lavished life and tell you living in poverty is good and to give to them? There are many ways one can easily detect a false prophet. But if this person is not false and they are since and they only seek to help you and guide you to Jesus with no reward for their work; then Jesus must be working through them in some way.

“My sisters and brothers open your hearts to those around you and either embrace the one trying bring Jesus to you; or be the one bringing Jesus to them.” ~me

In love we have been called to follow Jesus. Let us walk in a way that embraces truth all the ways Jesus has taught us; with our free-will, His grace and His love and His mercy. It is Jesus working through us that will help us to love and embrace the hearts of others. We must not allow any selfishness or pride to become part of this journey of ministry that we offer to the Lord. Humbly, before Jesus let us give Him all of ourselves; so that we may become an instrument for His use. He alone knows best how we might best serve Him. While we may desire to be a speaker like Paul the Apostle so desperately wanted to be; He desired that Paul should be a writer instead. With that said, look how his words have touched billions of us through the centuries in the New Testament. Paul pretty much wrote a quarter of the New Testament. If he was a great speaker we would have missed all his letters. Paul was a blessed writer who had Jesus in his heart. Almighty God worked through Paul’s written words to this very day. Think about that for a moment.

How has your life been similar to Paul’s? Is there something you’d like to do, but maybe there is something else you would do better? Me, I’d love to be a speaker/ seminar coordinator? WHAT??? Ok… All for the Lord of cause. But I have reserved fears and inadequate ability and experience in those fields and I am way too old to be taught how to do that now. LOL (yeah that was funny, I enjoy laughing at myself). But on a different note, I have been writing for more than three decades and I feel very comfortable saying everything I need to and more. LOL. Yes, I do just let myself go at times and this seems to be my proper place of ministry. Jesus knows this is my place, I have sensed that from the start. 33-years ago our Lord put the words. “Beads of Joy” in a poem and I fell in love with the idea of a “Newsletter” via email to everyone. Ironically. I do email a larger and larger group now personally each day the daily blog -worldwide. The ministry which is all for our Lord’s Glory has transformed, but continues to grow in ways that are incredible. I seek nothing in return from anyone; I want nothing in return from anyone. All I ask is that you love Jesus and that you open your hearts to His love. I bring the gospel to you each day, so that you don’t have to look for it. I try my best to bring Jesus to you as often and as much as I possibly can. This is my purpose in life. I really care for each one of you, I want all of you to be in Heaven one day with Jesus. More blogging tomorrow my friends.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Friday: We pray the Sorrowful Mysteries:

The Sorrowful Mysteries

1^. Agony on the Garden (Sorrow for sin) –Matt 26:36-46
2^. Scourging at the Pillar (Purity) –Mark 15:1-16
3^. Crowning with Thorns (Moral Courage) –Matt 27:27-31
4^. Carrying of the Cross (Patience) –Mark 15:20-22
5^. The Crucifixion (Perseverance) –Luke 23:33-46

Thank you Lord for loving us so much…

Rosary Man Jim’s Sorrowful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-sorrowful-mysteries_11.html

FRIDAY’S
I share this meditation I wrote back in 2010. Here I share my own personal insight and experience, as I journey with our Lady from station to station.

Many Franciscan groups around the world use this for their own group gathering while they meditate the Stations with our Lady. http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2010/03/marys-way-of-cross.html It is unique and emotionally very moving as you move from station to station… From my heart to yours.

Mission of The 72 and YOU

BEADS OF JOY 09-29-16

“Mission of The 72 and YOU”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 10:1-12 (Mission of The 72 and You)
“After this the Lord appointed seventy others, and sent them on ahead of him, two by two, into every town and place where he himself was about to come. And he said to them, "The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; pray therefore the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest. Go your way; behold, I send you out as lambs in the midst of wolves. Carry no purse, no bag, no sandals; and salute no one on the road. Whatever house you enter, first say, `Peace be to this house!' And if a son of peace is there, your peace shall rest upon him; but if not, it shall return to you. And remain in the same house, eating and drinking what they provide, for the laborer deserves his wages; do not go from house to house. Whenever you enter a town and they receive you, eat what is set before you; heal the sick in it and say to them, `The kingdom of God has come near to you.' But whenever you enter a town and they do not receive you, go into its streets and say, `Even the dust of your town that clings to our feet, we wipe off against you; nevertheless, know this, that the kingdom of God has come near.' I tell you, it shall be more tolerable on that day for Sodom than for that town.”

Reflection:
Today I chose the alternative Gospel reading of the day. The reading of the day I already wrote about recently, I actually already wrote about this one to, but there is so much more here to write about.

How do you witness the truth and joy of the Gospel to others? We must go in love, peace and simplicity. Our Lord told the 72, “Carry no purse, no bag, no sandals;” they were to place complete trust in Him and have their undivided attention on the sharing of the Gospel. They had to travel lightly in order to avoid any distraction; they were sent out to work hard and expect no reward or pay. Yes, that may sound harsh, but it was insightfully brilliant. Our Lord’s purpose and plan is always perfect, even though we may not initially understand it, in time it all makes sense. The gospels always tend to lead us to a place that leave us relying fully upon the Lord and trusting completely in Him. So by scriptural examples, we to can do the same. Look at today’s gospel.

So, they went out completely reliant upon the Lord to sustain them. Now that’s faith! It was by that faith in Jesus, that they were able to keep moving forward. And by receiving no payment, this allowed them to work with love, for the care and concern of others; rather than the objective to acquire wealth as their goal and objective, which would have preoccupied their hearts and mind. Our Lord wanted them to be fully focused to the task of sharing the Proclamation of God’s Kingdom. Giving of our life and our time and our talents to our Lord’s service, should be our single most joyful objective in this life. We only have this one life-time to give, but we are uncertain of its length. Let us do all we can to use this time wisely to serve Jesus, by leading others to Him.

Do not allow anything in this life to distract you or mislead you away from Jesus. There are many out there whose only objective is to lead away believers and lead them away to the slaughter. Stay strong to the course of your faith. Stay aware of your surroundings always. Pray daily and ask Almighty God to guide you and protect you in all situations. We live in a world that for now does not like us (Catholics). Yes, there are still millions upon millions of us worldwide; but we must be strong in the wave of hatred against us. Love those who hate us. Pray for those who persecute us. God knows our hearts and of cause, we want to even see those people who are against us saved. God wants everyone saved. We must love everyone, never hate someone, never do anything to harm another. Jesus is the one we must follow and be like, He is our example. Even Jesus on the Cross forgave those who crucified and killed Him. Our hearts must always be filled with love. Be strong my sisters and brothers. See you tomorrow.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Thursday: We pray the Luminous Mysteries:

The Luminous Mysteries

1. The Baptism of Jesus (Matt 3:13-17)
2. Wedding Feast of Cana (John 2:1-12)
3. Proclamation of the Kingdom of God (Mark 1:15)
4. The Transfiguration (Mark 9:2-13)
5. Institution of the Holy Eucharist (Matt 26:17-30)

Glory and Honor and Praise -Lord Jesus Christ!!

Rosary Man Jim's Luminous Reflections: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-luminous-mysteries.html

Be Not Afraid

BEADS OF JOY 09-28-16

“Be Not Afraid”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:57-62 (Be Not Afraid)
“As they were going along the road, a man said to him, "I will follow you wherever you go." And Jesus said to him, "Foxes have holes, and birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man has nowhere to lay his head." To another he said, "Follow me." But he said, "Lord, let me first go and bury my father." But he said to him, "Leave the dead to bury their own dead; but as for you, go and proclaim the kingdom of God." Another said, "I will follow you, Lord; but let me first say farewell to those at my home." Jesus said to him, "No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God."

Reflection:
The title of today’s reflection comes from John Michael Talbot’s song “Be Not Afraid”. I have it playing in the background as I write today’s reflection. John Michael Talbot’s music has been in my heart and life throughout my entire 33-year spiritual journey. Some people have many different fears and reasons why they won’t follow Jesus or why they may hesitate to follow Him. I thought this song today might help those most, that is why I am sharing this song today. While our Lord wants us to love and respect all things and everyone; we must without hesitation always put Him above everything and everyone. Jesus must come first, always. There is no acceptable excuse or reason why He must come second.

Are you really ready to Follow Jesus? If you decide to, you must trust that you will have the strength to follow Him to the end. Through the power of the Holy Spirit and your faith, you will make it. But remember this, following Jesus comes with a price, true disciples will experience sacrifice and discomfort. Jesus has spoken of detaching ourselves from the things that hold us back, most especially things of this world. Nothing should come between us and the Lord. If you are a true believer and follower you must be willing to stay the course in all situations; there is no reason to turn back, no reason to leave your post, we must stay the course. I know this to well. But I did not do this with full knowledge. I did it because my heart is all wrapped up in my Lord and our Lady. A 33-year love affair I could not and will never abandon.

What happen? You ask? Here’s the short version: Chrissy’s illness began in May 2010. The ministry and my driving and my writing was in full force growing and the Lord was guiding and directing. While Chrissy was horribly ill she was unable to take care of herself, so I had to be her care-taker, while working, writing, taking care of the 3 kids, taking her to the doctors, etc., etc., etc. Oh yeah, while doing all I can to coordinate multiple daily rosaries and prayers and write my daily blog in reflection of the day’s gospel. Other than knowing it was our Lord that got us through that; there is no other way to describe how it would have been possible. There were days, no weeks that I went days with 1-2 hour naps and somehow survived. It’s a miracle both she and I have survived to this day. Never once did I walk away and abandon my post (aka, the ministry). I paused twice to just catch up, but there is no way I could ever stop! I can’t! Jesus is in my blood. The beads flow through my veins. I knew the cost when I began this journey. No I did not know the road ahead, but I knew I had to stay the course. Yes, the venue has changed a couple of times, but the message and the task remain the same. SHARE JESUS EVERYDAY! Without fear! Without worry about what others say! More to come tomorrow my friends. Enjoy the music…

Be Not Afraid - John Michael Talbot

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Wednesday: We pray the Glorious Mysteries:

The Glorious Mysteries

1. The Resurrection (Faith) –Mark 16:1-8
2. The Ascension (Hope) –Luke 24:50-53
3. The Descent of the Holy Spirit (Love) –Acts 2:1-4
4. Assumption of Our Lady (A Happy Death) –Rev 12:1-6
5. The Coronation of Mary (Mary’s intercession) –Judith 15:9-10

Glory and Honor and Praise to You Lord Jesus!!!

Rosary Man Jim's Glorious Reflections: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-glorious-mysteries.html

Set Toward Jerusalem

BEADS OF JOY 09-27-16

“Set Toward Jerusalem”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:51-56 (Set Toward Jerusalem)
“When the days drew near for him to be received up, he set his face to go to Jerusalem. And he sent messengers ahead of him, who went and entered a village of the Samaritans, to make ready for him; but the people would not receive him, because his face was set toward Jerusalem. And when his disciples James and John saw it, they said, "Lord, do you want us to bid fire come down from heaven and consume them?" But he turned and rebuked them. And they went on to another village.”

Reflection:
While the video below includes both today and tomorrows gospel. I will only reflect upon what today is all about. Tolerance of our enemies. Jesus not only offered friendship to those who did not like Him; but He also asked for their hospitality as He entered their towns and villages. The enemies we are speaking about are those who reject and ignore you and wish to have nothing to do with you. In Jesus’ time a Jewish pilgrim would never consider passing through Samaritan territory; they were common enemies, they would be treated badly and even assaulted. How do you treat those who treat you so rudely?

We all have people, friends and even family in our lives that want nothing to do with us. How do you handle that? Doing nothing is fine, but are you at least praying for them? God knows your heart and yes he knows their hearts to. Kindness and no lashing out is best. There are many people who don’t like me (us) and I don’t know why; but that’s ok, I don’t lose any more sleep than I already do, I leave all the worry to Jesus. I consider everyone a child of God, no matter what their faith is or what they believe and I believe in praying for everyone, even those I don’t particularly like because of their choices and viewpoints. I also don’t believe in judging anyone. Who am I to judge anyone? I am of no authority to be another’s judge! I am certainly not holier than thou, to be so ridiculous to think that I am. All judgment is left to God, not me. All I do is love, forgive and do unto others as I hope they’d do unto me.

Jesus teaches us to love one another. NOT Judge one another! We must not forget that! Too many people in this world spend too much time judging others. I don’t care what your color, creed, religion or even your politics are; my prayers and my love for you as a fellow child of God are all the same. If you are indeed God’s Child (which you are) than my job as a fellow sibling of the same Father; is to be praying that you to unite with all of us in Heaven as God so wishes all of His children to do one day. Our Father who art in Heaven, wants all of His Children to be with Him. In this life God’s Will and God’s Plan for each of us to some degree is unknown; we must trust that He will guide each of us and show each of us the way. So let us not hinder others and judge others and lash out at others like we are God (because we are NOT). Let God open their hearts, instead let us love them and pray for them and treat them with respect and love the way Jesus would want us to. Our example is the best way to show the way. Till we meet again tomorrow my friends.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Tuesday: We pray the Sorrowful Mysteries:

The Sorrowful Mysteries

1^. Agony on the Garden (Sorrow for sin) –Matt 26:36-46
2^. Scourging at the Pillar (Purity) –Mark 15:1-16
3^. Crowning with Thorns (Moral Courage) –Matt 27:27-31
4^. Carrying of the Cross (Patience) –Mark 15:20-22
5^. The Crucifixion (Perseverance) –Luke 23:33-46

Thank you Lord for loving us so much…

Rosary Man Jim’s Sorrowful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-sorrowful-mysteries_11.html

Who Is Least Among You

BEADS OF JOY 09-26-16

“Who Is Least Among You”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:46-50 (Who Is Least Among You)
“And an argument arose among them as to which of them was the greatest. But when Jesus perceived the thought of their hearts, he took a child and put him by his side, and said to them, "Whoever receives this child in my name receives me, and whoever receives me receives him who sent me; for he who is least among you all is the one who is great." John answered, "Master, we saw a man casting out demons in your name, and we forbade him, because he does not follow with us." But Jesus said to him, "Do not forbid him; for he that is not against you is for you."

Reflection:
The world’s method of being first is not like our Lord’s. I think most of us already knew that; but of cause in all fairness some may not have known that. Anything usually contrary to the grains and direction of this worldly life, is pretty much opposite of the ways of our Lord. I guess it’s not surprising to learn that the disciples would argue who was the greatest amongst themselves. Don’t we do that at work? Or even amongst our siblings? I’m the best salesperson… I’m the best manager… I’m the Number 1 Producer this month… I’m the smartest child… I’m the most successful… Hasn’t it in many ways for us, always been about stepping out into the lead? And leaving others in our dust? Why would we be surprised to hear the disciples want to know who the greatest is also?

We must rather always seek to be the least and humble before our Lord with Jesus Christ as our role model. Let us reflect upon some scripture to inspire and encourage and direct us: I love scripture!

“just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve” ~Matthew 20:28

“but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant” ~Philippians 2:7

“God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” ~James 4:6

“But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, so that the surpassing greatness of the power will be of God and not from ourselves;” ~2 Corinthians 4:7

If indeed we are filled with the Holy Spirit, then the Holy Spirit will lead us humbly to our Lord. Our goals and our dreams in this life can still be noble and forthright; yet they must not be selfish and worldly. I know that there is a fine line to find there, but by God’s Grace He will help guide you. Sometimes it’s all about the love you share or the charity of sharing that you have in your life, that makes you very humble. Those who are successful are not evil and I am not against success. I promote and encourage success. But we must always keep in mind “others” when we are successful. Success is not another word for selfishness. That is what I teach our children. I explain that their care and concern for others must always come first. First to their siblings, if God forbid they are ever suffering or in trouble, then to everyone else. Faith! Family! Friends!

I am a very simply person not desiring wealth or fame, God knows my heart. A simply life, a simply meal, a roof over my head and knowing my family is doing well; that is my goal. Oh yeah, and the chance to share with all of you each day. My Bible and Rosary in hand and I am a happy man. God knows my heart. As we journey closer and closer to be with Jesus our greatest goal, our greatest achievement in life, in my opinion; should not be one of public note, but one of faith based family legacy. Our example of how we live our lives each day and in our “notes, stories” and “experiences” documented that can be passed down through the generations, will indeed be our greatest legacy to pass on. Humble and silent, yet powerful and loud, cheering praises to our Lord centuries ahead. That my friends, is my vision of God working through me, his humble servant. Till tomorrow my friends. Keep smiling.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Monday: We pray the Joyful Mysteries:

The Joyful Mysteries

1. The Annunciation (Humility) – Luke 1:26-28
2. The Visitation (Love of Neighbor) – Luke 1:39-45
3. The Birth of Jesus (Poverty of Spirit) – Luke 2:1-20
4. The Presentation (Purity of Mind and Spirit) – Luke 2:22-38
5. Finding in The Temple (Obedience) –Luke 2:41-50

I simply love mornings, because they always begin with the Rosary.

Rosary Man Jim’s Joyful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-joyful-mysteries_10.html

Rich Man And Lazarus

BEADS OF JOY 09-25-16

“Rich Man And Lazarus”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 16:19-31 (Rich Man And Lazarus)
“There was a rich man, who was clothed in purple and fine linen and who feasted sumptuously every day. And at his gate lay a poor man named Lazarus, full of sores, who desired to be fed with what fell from the rich man's table; more over the dogs came and licked his sores. The poor man died and was carried by the angels to Abraham's bosom. The rich man also died and was buried; and in Hades, being in torment, he lifted up his eyes, and saw Abraham far off and Lazarus in his bosom. And he called out, `Father Abraham, have mercy upon me, and send Lazarus to dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue; for I am in anguish in this flame.' But Abraham said, `Son, remember that you in your lifetime received your good things, and Lazarus in like manner evil things; but now he is comforted here, and you are in anguish. And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, in order that those who would pass from here to you may not be able, and none may cross from there to us.' And he said, `Then I beg you, father, to send him to my father's house, for I have five brothers, so that he may warn them, lest they also come into this place of torment.' But Abraham said, `They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them.' And he said, `No, father Abraham; but if someone goes to them from the dead, they will repent.' He said to him, `If they do not hear Moses and the prophets, neither will they be convinced if someone should rise from the dead.'"

Reflection:
Let us look at today’s parable. How sad and utterly wasted was the life of the rich man; even after death he requested that Lazarus, “dip the end of his finger in water and cool my tongue” he was still expecting to be served and waited upon, what a fool. Lazarus paid his dues, suffered throughout his life while living in poverty; never giving up hope or trust in Almighty God. Yet the rich man was so absorbed in his wealth and possessions and power; he never knew the suffering of someone like Lazarus, where the dogs licked his sores and he died on the street. The rich man never begged while he was alive, but he sure was begging for that cool water on his tongue after his death.

This story has us think of many things, but I think of this: Where are we in this story? Are we Lazarus or are we the rich man (person)? What consumes our thoughts, our time, our attention, our every desire that we have? Is it Jesus? Is it power? Is it Prayer? Is it more possessions? Is it going to Adoration to be with Jesus? Is it having more money? Is it what people think about us? Well, what is it? It must be at least one of these or at least hopefully a combination of a couple of these? In the end, you don’t have to answer to me; but we all will have to answer to Almighty God. He alone knows our hearts, our desires and our ulterior motives. Living a life fully in trust to Him is the only way to live. No matter if we are homeless or just working hard. Every day you open your eyes is a good one and when you open them say, “Thank you Jesus” and be grateful and happy.

Poverty is a tough word and an even tougher life when you have no food or money to do anything that you need to do. I’m going to say something some of you may not like, but y’all know me, I’m going to say it anyway. I think everyone should at some point experience poverty! Yes, I said it. Not forced or made to suffer under some crazy conspiracy. I mean suffer in ways where food and your general needs become almost impossible to have on a daily basis. Even have some days where you don’t eat at all. I (our family) has been there several times. Close to being homeless and that was beyond stressful. We struggled nearly 12-15 months straight and I had to beg month to month for our survival. The state helped us, but never enough. We had bills pile up, electric shut off notices, empty cabinets, empty refrigerator. So many times. When you suffer you appreciate everything in a whole new way and you want to help others in a whole new way. That is why I said what I said.

There is a certain empathy that can only come from within when you have been there and lived it. All of a sudden you value others more than diamonds and gold. All of a sudden you value friendship and love more than power and status. All of a sudden you value your faith and devotion to Jesus over and above anything worldly thing world has to offer. I care a great deal about all of you, that is why I say what I say each day. See you tomorrow.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Sunday: We pray the Glorious Mysteries:

The Glorious Mysteries

1. The Resurrection (Faith) –Mark 16:1-8
2. The Ascension (Hope) –Luke 24:50-53
3. The Descent of the Holy Spirit (Love) –Acts 2:1-4
4. The Assumption of Our Lady
(Grace of a Happy Death) –Rev 12:1-6
5. The Coronation of Mary (Mary’s intercession) –Judith 15:9-10

Rosary Man Jim's Glorious Reflections: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-glorious-mysteries.html

Second Passion Prediction

BEADS OF JOY 09-24-16

“Second Passion Prediction”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:43-45 (Second Passion Prediction)
“And all were astonished at the majesty of God. But while they were all marveling at everything he did, he said to his disciples, "Let these words sink into your ears; for the Son of man is to be delivered into the hands of men." But they did not understand this saying, and it was concealed from them, that they should not perceive it; and they were afraid to ask him about this saying.”

Reflection:
Have you given our Lord your full allegiance? Like the disciples, do you marvel at all of what Jesus has done and acknowledge His greatness and love? We must be humble of heart before God to be in His favor. Today Jesus tells us a second time, ahead of time, that He is going to die. The disciples couldn’t grasp this. How could they? Jesus heals and He came too free His people. How can a Cross and death have anything to do with this? For today in this scripture the mystery of the Passion will continue to remain a mystery for the disciples.

There is one huge difference between us and the disciples: They lived the scriptures side by side with Jesus, living day by day only by faith not knowing what will happen. But we my sisters and brothers have the completed scriptures in our hands and we know exactly what is going to happen. So we have no excuse why we can’t have full faith and allegiance in Jesus Christ. I invite you today to spend time in scripture. Make it a Habit! Make it a Hobby! Make it become part of your Life! This new obsession will enrich your life in ways that will surprise you. Soon you subconscious will remember scripture and even “where” certain stories are.

Let me share with you my Bible Study Habits. For starters, I am not a boring, book reading, scholar who spends twenty hours a day translating literature into fifteen different ways to say I understand it. LOL. Now that sentence was confusing. Well, I don’t do that. I am a simple person who wants to enjoy scripture and I want to remember it, without trying. Yes, you read that correctly. So this is the basic general way I spend time in scripture. 75% of my time in the New Testament: Reading, Listening or Viewing. Yes, you read all those options correctly. Then I use 25% of my time in the Old Testament for reference study and chapter/event reading. In the past 33 years I have read the Bible about 3 times cover to cover. Today I invite you to see and hopefully adopt a method of study I have used for well over the past 13+ years now. Go to this link and learn of my method, see all the links, it’s all set-up already, it’s all free. ENJOY and you will become addicted like me. http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/11/rosary-mans-gospel-study.html Hope you all have a fantastic weekend, see you tomorrow.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Saturday: We pray the Joyful Mysteries:

The Joyful Mysteries

1. The Annunciation (Humility) – Luke 1:26-28
2. The Visitation (Love of Neighbor) – Luke 1:39-45
3. The Birth of Jesus (Poverty of Spirit) – Luke 2:1-20
4. The Presentation (Purity of Mind and Spirit) – Luke 2:22-38
5. Finding in The Temple (Obedience) –Luke 2:41-50

I simply love Saturday mornings, because Saturday like every other day of the week -it begins with the Rosary.

Rosary Man Jim’s Joyful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-joyful-mysteries_10.html

Peter’s Confession

BEADS OF JOY 09-23-16

“Peter’s Confession”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:18-22 (Peter’s Confession)
“Now it happened that as he was praying alone the disciples were with him; and he asked them, "Who do the people say that I am?" And they answered, "John the Baptist; but others say, Elijah; and others, that one of the old prophets has risen." And he said to them, "But who do you say that I am?" And Peter answered, "The Christ of God." But he charged and commanded them to tell this to no one, saying, "The Son of man must suffer many things, and be rejected by the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised."

Reflection:
Who do you say that Jesus is? It is the Holy Spirit that guides us and leads us to Jesus. It is through the power of the Holy Spirit that we begin to understand the Gospel and who Jesus is in our lives. Do you openly allow the Spirit of God to work through you; so that you can witness and live a life of courage and faith, standing strong in your faith in Jesus Christ? Jesus never said it would be easy. For Him it took humiliation, suffering beyond what we could ever imagine and then eventual death upon a cross, a cross He had to carry.

If we ever intend to share in the Victory of His Resurrection we to must also carry our own Cross. Some have light crosses in this life, while others have enormously clumsy extremely heavy ones. God’s knows what we can handle and He only allows that which we can handle, no more. The Holy Spirit gives us the faith and the strength we need to know Jesus and to get through this life as witnesses to His Truth, His Word, His Victory over sin. Who do you say Jesus is?

Why did Jesus say to the disciples, “…tell this to no one”? That seems rather odd, wouldn’t Jesus want Peter to proclaim his witness, his faith to all? Well I found a wonderful, well explained explanation for His request for their silence, that I wish to share with you from Cyril of Alexandria (376-444 AD):

“There were things yet unfulfilled which must also be included in their preaching about him. They must also proclaim the cross, the passion, and the death in the flesh. They must preach the resurrection of the dead, that great and truly glorious sign by which testimony is borne him that the Emmanuel is truly God and by nature the Son of God the Father. He utterly abolished death and wiped out destruction. He robbed hell, and overthrew the tyranny of the enemy. He took away the sin of the world, opened the gates above to the dwellers upon earth, and united earth to heaven. These things proved him to be, as I said, in truth God. He commanded them, therefore, to guard the mystery by a seasonable silence until the whole plan of the dispensation should arrive at a suitable conclusion.”

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Friday: We pray the Sorrowful Mysteries:

The Sorrowful Mysteries

1^. Agony on the Garden (Sorrow for sin) –Matt 26:36-46
2^. Scourging at the Pillar (Purity) –Mark 15:1-16
3^. Crowning with Thorns (Moral Courage) –Matt 27:27-31
4^. Carrying of the Cross (Patience) –Mark 15:20-22
5^. The Crucifixion (Perseverance) –Luke 23:33-46

Thank you Lord for loving us so much…

Rosary Man Jim’s Sorrowful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-sorrowful-mysteries_11.html

FRIDAY’S
I share this meditation I wrote back in 2010. Here I share my own personal insight and experience, as I journey with our Lady from station to station.

Many Franciscan groups around the world use this for their own group gathering while they meditate the Stations with our Lady. http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2010/03/marys-way-of-cross.html It is unique and emotionally very moving as you move from station to station… From my heart to yours.

Herod Sought To See Jesus

BEADS OF JOY 09-22-16

“Herod Sought To See Jesus”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 9:7-9 (Herod Sought To See Jesus)
“Now Herod the tetrarch heard of all that was done, and he was perplexed, because it was said by some that John had been raised from the dead, by some that Elijah had appeared, and by others that one of the old prophets had risen. Herod said, "John I beheaded; but who is this about whom I hear such things?" And he sought to see him.”

Reflection:
There has been many portrayals and scriptural translations teaching us how much King Herod respected and feared John the Baptist. He considered John a great prophet and servant of God. Yet John had no fear or respect for Herod. That’s why when Jesus came along this troubled him or as scripture says this “perplexed” Herod. At first he thought Jesus was John raised from the dead; so he sought Him out and had to see for himself. See Herod was, by his own choices riddled with guilt and sin. He could not find peace knowing someone “like” John who he knew he had killed, was out there without seeing him for himself. Sin and Guilt. Two horrible powers we can become slaves of…

There is only true way to peace and that is through Jesus Christ. Only Jesus can set us free from any chains of sin and/or guilt. Jesus promises to lead us to real freedom and eternal peace if we listen to His voice and obey His Word. This world can be very deceitful and misleading, a vacuum of words and promises that will trap you and pull you in. So many of us get so caught up in promises and glamour and glory in the eyes of the world; that we forget that once we are here no more all of this doesn’t matter anymore. In the span of our short time here on earth 60-70-80, maybe 90 years, ok some, few make 100 years, we are gone from this place. Then the place we are going to, we will be in for all eternity. Hmm… Now let that sink in for a while. How long is eternity? I can’t answer that; the number will take all eternity for me to say… Yep!

But today’s Gospel has another reflection of thought. King Herod admired John the Baptist. Who do you admire? Who do you want to be like? Whose life is the example of the life you are trying to emulate? Is it someone with authority? Someone in the News? Some from Hollywood? Someone is History? Someone Wealthy? Be careful, obviously it’s your choice. But keep in mind, the people we surround ourselves by and those we admire will inevitably be who we turn out to be. Obviously just because we admire famous people does not mean we become famous. But what it does do, is waste our life away, while we could be spending it focusing on what really matters. Did you just ask, What? Hmmm… You really want my opinion and reflection? Well I guess that’s why you are here. Ok, get out your pen… Focus on Jesus and see how His life is working through your life. Spend time in prayer every single day. Really stay focused on preparing for eternity while you live a life pleasing to our Lord. Go to Mass, adoration and confession (frequently)! Lead others to Jesus by example. Do not be selfish. Help others every chance you can. Live a simple, very fulfilling life that has Jesus, our Lady and the Rosary in it 24/7/365… Well that’s my life. See you all tomorrow.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Thursday: We pray the Luminous Mysteries:

The Luminous Mysteries

1. The Baptism of Jesus (Matt 3:13-17)
2. Wedding Feast of Cana (John 2:1-12)
3. Proclamation of the Kingdom of God (Mark 1:15)
4. The Transfiguration (Mark 9:2-13)
5. Institution of the Holy Eucharist (Matt 26:17-30)
Glory and Honor and Praise -Lord Jesus Christ!!

Rosary Man Jim's Luminous Reflections: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-luminous-mysteries.html

Calling of Matthew

BEADS OF JOY 09-21-16

“Calling of Matthew”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Matthew 9:9-13 (Calling of Matthew)
“As Jesus passed on from there, he saw a man called Matthew sitting at the tax office; and he said to him, "Follow me." And he rose and followed him. And as he sat at table in the house, behold, many tax collectors and sinners came and sat down with Jesus and his disciples. And when the Pharisees saw this, they said to his disciples, "Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?" But when he heard it, he said, "Those who are well have no need of a physician, but those who are sick. Go and learn what this means, `I desire mercy, and not sacrifice.' For I came not to call the righteous, but sinners."

Reflection:
Well, well… Matthew got a text today from our Lord. LOL… No! actually, Jesus showed up at Matthew’s booth and made a request, “Follow me”. And Matthew knew in his heart, this was where he wanted to be, so he followed Jesus. So from this point on, we know what Matthew’s career change is in scripture. Do you know what your calling in life is? When did Jesus call you? What were you doing? What did you stop doing and begin doing so that you can follow Him? For many of us this was a big lifestyle change; simply meaning going from a non-spiritual lifestyle to one a great devotion.

This my friends is: “My Story” This story has been shared worldwide for over a decade and read by thousands even as recent as this past week according to my blog statics report. I invite you, if you haven’t already read it, to read it and learn all about my journey to Jesus through our Lady.
http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2010/01/my-story-1st-time-posted-here.html

Originally written in 2006 while I was travelling across country in an 18-wheeler for TMC while building our ministry (Beads of Joy Rosary Ministry) and still studying and discerning to be a Secular Franciscan. The entirety of it was written in Oklahoma City over a long weekend. I can still remember the entire experience of writing my story and my story both, like as it they happened only yesterday. The experience has given my life “a mission” “a calling” that has lasted 33 years and it is still forging forward. When will this end? When I am no longer breathing. But I hope and pray that even then it still has some life to still somehow move forward in some way through these written words.

My Friends: I encourage you to find your mission in life. Seek out what it is Jesus wants of you and then spend your life doing it. Live, breathe, sleep, eat, talk, write it… 24/7/365. Pray and ask our Lord to guide you. Yes, you will have dry spells. Yes, you will have challenges (many at times). Yes, from time to time you may question everything. But I say this, if you know Jesus has guided and directed you. DO NOT STOP. Forge forward my friends. Somehow, some way the path will always be cleared for you. Just trust in His request and trust in His Will for your life and allow Him to do the rest; but don’t you rest, work day and night doing all you can to follow Him with Joy and excitement to spread His Word. He will show you the way! Directions may change. You may go from ship to shore. Facebook to Twitter. City to Towns. Whatever! Wherever! Jesus has an incredible way in our hearts to lead us, He will show you the way. My 33-year journey is my testament, my witness to all of what I am saying. See you tomorrow my friends. Promise.

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Wednesday: We pray the Glorious Mysteries:

The Glorious Mysteries

1. The Resurrection (Faith) –Mark 16:1-8
2. The Ascension (Hope) –Luke 24:50-53
3. The Descent of the Holy Spirit (Love) –Acts 2:1-4
4. Assumption of Our Lady (A Happy Death) –Rev 12:1-6
5. The Coronation of Mary (Mary’s intercession) –Judith 15:9-10

Glory and Honor and Praise to You Lord Jesus!!!

Rosary Man Jim's Glorious Reflections: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2013/05/the-glorious-mysteries.html

Jesus And His Family

BEADS OF JOY 09-20-16

“Jesus And His Family”

©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS

My Friends,

Today’s Gospel: Luke 8:19-21 (Jesus And His Family)
"Then his mother and his brothers came to him, but they could not reach him for the crowd. And he was told, "Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, desiring to see you." But he said to them, "My mother and my brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it."

Reflection:
Today’s gospel is a tough reflection. I know some who don’t love Our Blessed Mother and take this opportunity to say, “See!!” My response is simple, “No, I don’t see!” So today I will instead reflect upon our spiritual relationships; which I guess really is a direct reflection of today’s gospel. Who do you have in your life that is of spiritual influence to you as you continue your journey following Jesus? This can be a friend, family member, neighbor, prayer team member, a Priest, a Religious, even someone in the public eye, on TV, online… God allows certain people to pass through our lives for a reason.

This person should not be worshiped or honored. This person can be admired and loved. I have 5 people I call my “Spiritual Super Heroes” I have a whole blog I wrote about them in. Today I will simply speak and share who they are; and why I feel so fortunate to have them in my life:

#1. Fr. Gerald Mullally –Born 05.11.50 -PASSED AWAY on 12.14.11 (we’ve been friends since 1991) what can I say that I haven’t already; and that I will continue to say? He was truly one of my bestest best friends. He was truly my brother. I was always able to contact him directly. Cell phone, text, email, Facebook, twitter. He was always available to me, no matter what. It didn’t matter. We spoke most every single day to some degree. He was my Spiritual Director for many years, back when he wasn’t comfortable being one. I begged him to be mine. He agreed and I showed what to do. LOL… I always had a Spiritual Director in my life. Eventually he became an incredible advisor spiritually for me. No matter where I was living, we always made time for one another. I miss so much, words won’t ever convey the loss in my heart. I can write volumes of books about all that Father and I shared.

#2. Jack McElligott -Born 01.13.25 -PASSED AWAY on 10.15.10 (friends since 1992) a very dear friend indeed, he to, has gone to be with the Lord. I miss you Jack. Jack was a man who I spoke to, online, on the phone, and in person. One day, a few months before he passed away six years ago, (when Chrissy first got diagnosed with cancer) he said to me while hanging out in my yard, “You know Jim, I get it, and I think I really understand you now. No matter how much stress you are under, no matter how many horrible things get thrown at you, you stay upbeat and happy and joyful all the time… It’s the depths of your faith, isn’t it?” I said, “Of cause it is Jack, it always has been.” He just smiled at me and said, “You have a wonderful gift, the gift of Joy in your heart, I am so happy for you Jim.” That was one of our last real wholesome faith filled conversations we had. That was also the time I ever since, before he died. I really miss him, he was one, wise, generous, giving, loving, incredible man. He never judged anyone, never spoke bad of anyone, always stayed positive and always gave all he had to everyone.

#3. Jerry Kelly –Born 11.04.45 He was 67 y/o -PASSED AWAY on 04.10.13 (great friends since 1983) The Leader of Our Lady’s Pathways prayer group. And a dear close friend of mine, he was there from the beginning, when I first gave my life to Jesus. Jerry is a true man of honor and a true man of God; his private words to me during our prayer time, always touched the prayers that I privately prayed. God spoke through him many times to me. His love for our Lady is the love I learned from for her. I always think of him (Jerry) when I am really into my love for Mary. I always try to emulate his love for her. I met Jerry back in 1983 just prior to him and Carol starting (Our Lady’s Pathways Prayer Group), which I joined. He and I met at (Our Mother of Consolation Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group) at the convent. And we also together belonged to the (St. Patrick’s Catholic Charismatic Prayer Group) in Richmondtown, Staten Island. Jerry was an incredible Spiritual Role Model. Strong and Bold in his faith and love for our Lord and our Lady. I really miss you Jerry.

#4. Fr Peter Calabrese (been friends since 2002) He is the Associate Director of Our Lady of Fatima Shrine in Lewiston, NY. I believe he is of higher caliber now, it has been a while (years) since I have seen him last. He is busier these days, compared to the days when I use to hang out with him and Fr. Julio at the shrine. He is living the life I would have loved to live if I were to be a priest (which I did at one point, point out to him). Fr Peter was also my Spiritual Director for a while, when we lived up in Niagara Falls. He is a man with some incredible insightful wisdom. His bible studies were out of this world.  I really miss living only 6 miles from the Shrine. There was one time I told Father I envied his life. He was utterly amazed and he told me no one has ever told him that before. Then I shared my past desire to be a Priest and my love for our Lady and the Rosary; and how his life at Our Lady of Fatima Shrine would have been the life I would loved to live. It would have been my Heaven on earth. He got it! Miss my daily visits to the shrine Fr. Peter, hope to see you soon.

#5 Al Picogna OFS (we’ve friends since about 2005) Al is my Franciscan brother and dear close friend. He and I talk most every single day. He pointed out after Fr Mullally’s passing that he understands the depths of my sorrow. He said to me, “Jim, you talked about whatever was going on with you and Father, every single day we ever talked.” I was like, “I did??” Al’s insights and deeply rooted faith based life are a true inspiration to me. He is a remarkable friend, a true man of honor and an incredibly devoted dad to his daughters and their families and wonderful attentive grandfather. His family is so fortunate to have a man like him in their lives. There is no doubt in my mind that in many ways he is the Mother Teresa of our time. Respectfully. He is a giving man who does not put himself or his own needs first, ever. He always puts the needs of others first, whether it’s his children, grand-children, friends, or even his ex-wife. Al amazes me but does not surprise me with his generosity and love towards others. Thank You Al for being a true example of a Catholic who puts others first all the time.

John Michael Talbot's Reflection on Today's Gospel

LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!

Your brother in Christ Jesus 
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS

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Today is Tuesday: We pray the Sorrowful Mysteries:

The Sorrowful Mysteries

1^. Agony on the Garden (Sorrow for sin) –Matt 26:36-46
2^. Scourging at the Pillar (Purity) –Mark 15:1-16
3^. Crowning with Thorns (Moral Courage) –Matt 27:27-31
4^. Carrying of the Cross (Patience) –Mark 15:20-22
5^. The Crucifixion (Perseverance) –Luke 23:33-46

Thank you Lord for loving us so much…

Rosary Man Jim’s Sorrowful Reflection: http://beads-of-joy-blog.blogspot.com/2014/02/the-sorrowful-mysteries_11.html