BEADS OF JOY 08-12-16
“God Has Joined Together”
©2016 James Dacey, Jr. OFS
My Friends,
Today’s Gospel: Matt 19:3-12 (God
Has Joined Together)
Reflection:
Always a tough topic to discuss in today’s time, without a doubt. So, I am not going to write any sort of reflection of judgement using scripture, I have no right to. Instead I will reflect upon my own challenges and my own life. Some of you know me, some of you don’t. LOL! I laugh because that can be good and that can be bad. But in the same token it really doesn’t matter; because this is my story and with saying all that I can’t be placed in judgement. Everyone’s story is “their own” story. Their Life’s Reflection. Here’s my reflection of 30 years…
Back on October 24, 1986 Chrissy and I eloped… Oh Yes, we did. Then we raced out to Atlantic City, NJ for our weekend get-away. Oh well so much for a fancy honeymoon. But that’s ok, we weren’t into that kind of glamour stuff anyway. We are simple kind of “county folks” even though we were born and raised in NYC. Go figure! Any-hoot! We did eventually have our “Church” wedding on May 2, 1987. Chrissy had to become a Catholic, she was Episcopalian; Mother Eugenia gave Chrissy personal RCIA lessons at Our Mother’s Consolation Convent. So on Easter Sunrise Mass 1987 Chrissy became a Catholic receiving all her sacraments on the convents grounds. The picture below is at the convent in their chapel where we “retook” our vows so all our friends there could see us who couldn’t make it to the church.
Well I guess the big question is: How have you guys survived after 30 years? After 30 years I have come to this conclusion.
My 30 Years of Wisdom:
- Always seek to be a Peacemaker.
- Have a $0.00 hobby that consumes you. (writing, art, etc.)
- Cook and clean at meal time together don’t use a dishwasher (we have a dishwasher, but we don't use it).
- Food shop together, learn each others likes and dislikes.
- Focus on the kids together making them the priority.
- Never ever scream or fight EVER.
- Never say something you know you will regret.
- Take one day at a time in good and bad times.
That's all for now.
LOVE YOU GUYS !!!!
Your brother in Christ Jesus
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS
And His Most Blessed Mother,
Jim (The Rosary Man) Dacey Jr OFS